Gary Chapman’s Hate Language: Homophobia

Loving the sinner and hating the sin isn’t love.

Valentine Wiggin
3 min readMar 10, 2021

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Today, I learned that Gary Chapman, the creator of the five love languages, told the parent of a gay son to love him but disapprove of his “lifestyle”. This happened in 2013. He tried to justify this by saying that men and women were “made for each other” and that any sort of variation in sexuality is “outside the…

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Valentine Wiggin

Death-positive, sex-positive, and LGBTQ-affirming Christian. Gen Z. I hate onions. She/her